What makes a person, place, or thing fascinating…Presence of beautiful core and communication. Everything communicates provided we listen and understand well.
The Two Types of Communication
We communicate using our senses There are two types of communication internal and external. Reading, hearing, observing, feeling, smelling, tasting, sensing, etc. all are inputs and we express ourselves by writing, hands creativity, and speaking. Our speech has both verbal and non-verbal communication. It consists of sound, expressions, body language, and language power. Scientifically sound is energy.
Mainly voice/sound is considered as an active and most powerful way to communicate. It’s voice or speech communication that makes a person a leader, legend, or great personality. Barak Obama, Sudha Krishnamurti, Benjamin Franklin, Sachin Tendulkar, etc are different people from different fields, the common thing is they are masters of communication and great influencers as well. The way they communicate using emotional intelligence leaves an impact. People don’t remember how do we look, what we wear etc, but they remember what they experience in our core presence and with our verbal and non-verbal communication. A place or thing becomes the most memorable when our heart-mind can communicate with that. Remember your favorite places, and what makes them your favorite. You must connect something that triggers feel good for you. Have you ever thought of why a thing gifted by dear ones become so precious to us? We keep it as the most valuable remembrance and whenever we see it, it communicates to our heart with certain emotions, isn’t it? That’s the beauty and power of communication. As good the communication will be as good as we feel and sense about it.
The quality of our lives
It’s communication with self and others that improves the quality of our lives. We all communicate but do not communicate too and sometimes miscommunicate. Sometimes we want to communicate but we do not aware (self and socially), that what and how to communicate is confusing for us. You must have noticed when we know something, our cognitive brain says ‘aha I know it and we become so confident and comfortable but when we don’t know something it develops a fear of facing the unknown. Imagine attending a party, when you know a few known people will be there, you feel so confident and comfortable to join that party. On the contrary, if you find yourself in a completely new place and among strangers, then you might be fearful of the discomfort of being there. Communication gets more power when we sense the sense of knowing. It’s the awareness that develops this sense, whether it’s self-awareness or social awareness. The application of Emotional Intelligence brings that awareness to us. People with emotional intelligence find it easier to get confidence and comfort, they know how to face what is unknown or none predicted. It empowers their communication strength. Anyone who wants to improve his/her communication skills for personal and professional growth and success, then it’s a good option for that person to consider learning emotional intelligence skills. Using this skill is like empowering connections between relationships. People can not only improve the quality of their relationships but also find desired growth in workplace and business environments. The best way to learn Emotional intelligence is to do it practically and apply it in real-time situations. For that in one-liner ‘let’s Communicate to communicate with Emotional Intelligence.’