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Design Super Destiny: First or Second Innings

A few days back I got a call from a parent and he asked me to meet for his daughter’s career coaching. During the conversion, he mentioned his son’s progress who is flying to Canada for business studies. He brought him to me around 2 and half years back for career coaching. I remember when I asked him what is your aspiration, He said” I want to become a businessman like Bill Gates”. Father being an engineer had a safe side thought of perusing an engineering degree and getting a corporate job. Boy’s personality type and meta-programs were apt for his dream, only, a belief ‘Since Bill Gates got failed during his education time, so there is no need to study hard to become a good businessman.” I simply asked him “What if Bill Gates gets a chance to rewrite a story and, in this story, he gets good marks too, then what would be like this story”. He said “Amazing”. Afterward, that boy secured good marks too. It is always a pleasure to see anyone living their dreams. I remember when I conceived the idea of Design Super Destiny. One of my school friends who calls me guru, always says “I was not able to complete my studies, you were not there.” My father got transferred and I shifted to another city. I couldn’t help her, At that time I was a child but now I can help many – that’s the core of Design Super Destiny. Many times children and young adults talk about their dreams but how many of them are able to live them? When Bill Clinton was just 3 years old, he told hid his teacher ‘I want to become president of America”, APJ Kalam wanted to fly like birds. During our childhood or some other point in time, people talk about their dreams, aspirations, or goals. But in reality, they structure themselves according to the system and needs. Sometimes job dissatisfaction, boredom, dragging a life, just living, considering unlucky or no charm for work, etc. all makes them form a firm low excitement or zero excitement mindset. Point is that why does it happen, when we design our destiny then why are we not able to design it the way we want? What is missing? The Connection. The connection between work and mind: Knowing whatever we are doing is connected at different levels of mind, how? and what can we change to make it a strong and better connection. Are we encouraging the new generation to live their dreams? Are we providing them education to know about themselves and design their dreams in the right direction? Are we making them understand their strength to empower themselves and society? I remember, a few years back when one boy told me ‘I want to become a scientist and work on the theory of black hole given by Steven Hawkins, he was a big fan of theirs. I was so amazed to hear his knowledge about this science. Now That boy is doing his research studies in Germany, so lovely. Children or Adults, anyone can live their dreams provided they design them by connecting with purpose. Many times people get fascinated by celebrities their lifestyle, and their influence and they dream to become like them. Those dreams are just fantasies, fascination, and no connection with core or purpose. Then how do design dreams? First, find the purpose why you want to fulfill your dreams. Nothing wrong with dreaming big but bigger the dream harder work more patience, Are you ready for that? Once your purpose is clear and your dreams are connected with you and your core, then you can work on converting them into reality by setting goals and making action plans. After a certain age or any particular incident in life, many people think life is over now, they can’t design their dreams. But there is always a way to go for the second innings. There is no age limit to design and the living dreams only thing is that if we desire. No matter whether it is the first innings or the second innings of life, live it fully by designing super destiny. Coaching provides the opportunity to know about yourself and finds the connection between connection spaces. The choice is always in our hands to take a step.

The Power Of Motivation

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“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams”- Amelia Earhart. Do you think you’re a person with enough capacity to contribute more? If so, these insights on motivation will surely interest you. Insights on Motivation Reaching your ideal motivational state means enjoying real confidence based on emotional empowerment. If you feel this personal power, you know who you are, your real personality, and your beliefs & core values. Moreover, when a person enjoys an optimal motivational state, they know that there’s a huge range of possibilities in their hands. It simply establishes equal relationships with others by setting healthy beliefs and understanding the communication system. If you make good use of your personal power, it will guide you to achieve your goals. Now the point is, what is motivation and how to reach a motivational state? Well…Motivation is the word derived from the word ’motive’ which means needs, desires, wants, or drives within the individuals. Motivation explains why people or animals initiate, continue or terminate a certain behavior at a particular time. Motivational states are commonly understood as forces acting within the individuals that initiate, guide, and maintain goal-oriented behaviors. It is what causes you to act, whether it is getting a glass of water, writing a blog, or learning something new. It is often held that different mental states compete with each other and that only the strongest state determines behavior. Motivation involves the biological, emotional, social, and cognitive forces that activate behavior. In everyday usage, the term “motivation” is frequently used to describe why a person does something. It is the driving force behind human actions. Motivation may be either extrinsic or intrinsic. Extrinsic motivations are those that arise from outside of the individual and often involve rewards such as trophies, money, power, position, social recognition, or praise. Intrinsic motivations are those that arise from within the individual, such as playing chess or writing poem for personal gratification. Research on motivation has been employed in various fields. Motivation is important both to an individual and a business. Motivation is important to an individual as: Motivation will help him identify and achieve their personal goals. If an individual is motivated, he/she will have great job satisfaction. Motivation will help in the self-development and growth of individuals. An individual would always gain by working with a dynamic and cooperative team. Similarly, motivation is essential to a business as: The more motivated the employees are, the more empowered the team is. The more the teamwork and individual employee contribution, the more profitable and successful the business. During the period of amendments or unpredictability, there will be more adaptability, innovation, and creativity. Motivation will lead to an optimistic, assertive, empathetic, and challenging attitude at the workplace. How to uplift motivation level? Even if you’re feeling low on motivation, there are steps you can take that will keep you moving forward. Some things you can do include: Adjust your goals to focus on things that really matter to you If you’re tackling something that is just too big or too overwhelming, break it up into smaller steps and try setting your sights on achieving that first step toward progress. Improve your confidence level. Remind yourself about what you achieved in the past and where your strengths lie. If there are things you feel not so strong and clear about, try working on making improvements in those areas so that you feel more skilled and capable. Do smart goal setting and planning Reward yourself to be fascinated with your goals. Find external sources to motivate yourself like reading books, quotes, watching documentaries or motivational stories, and having motivational conversations with others. Using Coaching tool Power of Motivation Anyone who has ever had a goal (like wanting to lose 30 pounds or run a marathon or write a book) probably immediately realizes that simply having the desire to accomplish something is not enough. Achieving such a goal requires the ability to persist through obstacles and the endurance to keep going in spite of difficulties. For all that a person needs to maintain an optimal motivational state. It is the power of motivation that drives you to accomplish your task. Coaching for uplifting Motivational Level Using a coaching tool one can activate, maintain and intensify a motivational state. This can be done by either self-coaching or professional coaching (facilitated by a life coach). Coaching helps you to realize your dreams and identify your personal power. It develops intrinsic motivation. Coaching helps you to strategies yourself to deal with external obstacles and reach your milestones, which develops extrinsic motivation. In a nutshell, the more you are coached, the more you are motivated, more you are successful.

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