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Design Super Destiny: First or Second Innings

A few days back I got a call from a parent and he asked me to meet for his daughter’s career coaching. During the conversion, he mentioned his son’s progress who is flying to Canada for business studies. He brought him to me around 2 and half years back for career coaching. I remember when I asked him what is your aspiration, He said” I want to become a businessman like Bill Gates”. Father being an engineer had a safe side thought of perusing an engineering degree and getting a corporate job. Boy’s personality type and meta-programs were apt for his dream, only, a belief ‘Since Bill Gates got failed during his education time, so there is no need to study hard to become a good businessman.” I simply asked him “What if Bill Gates gets a chance to rewrite a story and, in this story, he gets good marks too, then what would be like this story”. He said “Amazing”. Afterward, that boy secured good marks too. It is always a pleasure to see anyone living their dreams. I remember when I conceived the idea of Design Super Destiny. One of my school friends who calls me guru, always says “I was not able to complete my studies, you were not there.” My father got transferred and I shifted to another city. I couldn’t help her, At that time I was a child but now I can help many – that’s the core of Design Super Destiny. Many times children and young adults talk about their dreams but how many of them are able to live them? When Bill Clinton was just 3 years old, he told hid his teacher ‘I want to become president of America”, APJ Kalam wanted to fly like birds. During our childhood or some other point in time, people talk about their dreams, aspirations, or goals. But in reality, they structure themselves according to the system and needs. Sometimes job dissatisfaction, boredom, dragging a life, just living, considering unlucky or no charm for work, etc. all makes them form a firm low excitement or zero excitement mindset. Point is that why does it happen, when we design our destiny then why are we not able to design it the way we want? What is missing? The Connection. The connection between work and mind: Knowing whatever we are doing is connected at different levels of mind, how? and what can we change to make it a strong and better connection. Are we encouraging the new generation to live their dreams? Are we providing them education to know about themselves and design their dreams in the right direction? Are we making them understand their strength to empower themselves and society? I remember, a few years back when one boy told me ‘I want to become a scientist and work on the theory of black hole given by Steven Hawkins, he was a big fan of theirs. I was so amazed to hear his knowledge about this science. Now That boy is doing his research studies in Germany, so lovely. Children or Adults, anyone can live their dreams provided they design them by connecting with purpose. Many times people get fascinated by celebrities their lifestyle, and their influence and they dream to become like them. Those dreams are just fantasies, fascination, and no connection with core or purpose. Then how do design dreams? First, find the purpose why you want to fulfill your dreams. Nothing wrong with dreaming big but bigger the dream harder work more patience, Are you ready for that? Once your purpose is clear and your dreams are connected with you and your core, then you can work on converting them into reality by setting goals and making action plans. After a certain age or any particular incident in life, many people think life is over now, they can’t design their dreams. But there is always a way to go for the second innings. There is no age limit to design and the living dreams only thing is that if we desire. No matter whether it is the first innings or the second innings of life, live it fully by designing super destiny. Coaching provides the opportunity to know about yourself and finds the connection between connection spaces. The choice is always in our hands to take a step.

Learning Mindset for Ultimate Joy

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If a chance is given to you to choose between Learning and Entertainment, what will be your choice? Both are important to living a fulfilled life. We all need to replenish our mind, and there is n number of options to go for it. What about learning? Learning is legitimate earning. Prolonged entertainment may bring boredom but learning is such fun that you find yourself motivated and interested in doing this. But limiting beliefs ‘can’t learn anymore, learning is boring, learning is not required, ‘learning applies to young age’, ‘what people will be thinking if I learn at this age ‘learning is too difficult’ ‘learning is beneficial when it gives me promotion, money or other materialistic things” etc. stops us to experience this fun. Some myths or some prejudice whatever we experience, we store as our beliefs. Being rigid for a belief develop stiffness in nature. The thinking process goes into a limited zone and non-acceptance of changing patterns grooms the false ego to stand for that. People face challenges like weak memory, Alzheimer’s, sleeping disorder, anxiety and fearfulness with new things and environment, finding a solution to problems, adapt changes, emotional outbursts, managing relationship dynamics, coping mechanisms, updating and gelling with new systems and technology, etc. One of the major reasons behind all these is to stop learning. Learning is a mindset that makes a person experience fun and growth. Life doesn’t come just as a goody bag of favorite things. It is a surprise bag of all plus and minus. It’s a learning mindset that helps a person to make it as the beautiful and lovingly accepted goody bag of gifts. A learning mindset is a motivational growth for self and surroundings. It can be developed at any age just by training a mind. Truly loving a person is wishing happiness and growth for them, and it is applicable to themselves too. So what are you learning today? Living the answer to this question becomes a lifestyle with a learning mindset. Why does it so important to develop a learning mindset? If you are a leader, developing a mindset will enable you to enable your team members. Every employee needs orientation and up-gradation of skills to perform better. Organizations put a lot of time to evolve their employee’s skill sets. What if employees don’t have a learning mindset then training programs to become like a just compulsion for attendance with completely avoided attention. By helping employees to develop a learning mindset, a leader can ensure substantial performance at work and other technical skill development. If you are an employee, developing a learning mindset will help you to understand better at work and behavior level. A person may find ease when a sudden change or new assignment or skull needs to attempt. If you are a homemaker, already you are the backbone of your home. Developing a learning mindset will help you to learn new system-wise changes where you need to ask for help. A better understanding with dear ones by understanding their challenges in a new time. A quick understanding of modern shopping /billing/paying systems helps a person to manage the home budget smartly. If you are a student, it’s a non-negotiable skill to improve academic results and improved personality. Learning becomes easier with a learning mindset when information is flooded around. A student finds clarity to filter and narrow down the essentials to combat the confusion. 3 Steps to Develop a Learning Mindset Identify what stops you to learn. Replace those beliefs with good beliefs like ‘I like learning, I have all capabilities and resources to learn more and more. Identify and Manage Emotional states by being emotionally intelligent. It improves focus and concentration. Keep learning consistently, go for small intervals, and reward yourself. The above three are simple steps to improve learning, if you want you can ask for help from Professional Coaches. During a life coaching session, a coach helps you to go with the procedure in a safe and trustworthy environment. Learning is fun and it’s your learning mindset that brought you to this article. Just by growing it more and more, one can change life dynamics in a super fantastic way.

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